小孩是不能“催熟”的,他们的未来应该由他们自己主导。期中考试刚结束,班里有个学生显得有些不正常,常常在做功课的时候走神,心神不宁,一眼就能看出她闷闷不乐,这也引起了我的关注。趁着帮她整理、检查功课时,和她闲聊了几句,询问后才发现她承受了那么大的压力,难怪她会比其他同学多愁善感。平心而论,她的成绩已是班里顶尖的了,一直名列前茅,只是身为医生的父母给了她太大的压力,让 Children can not “mature”, their future should be dominated by themselves. Midterm exam just ended, there is a student in the class is somewhat abnormal, often in the time to do homework, distracted, one can see her depressed, which also caught my attention. Taking advantage of helping her organize, check the homework, chatting with her a few words, after asking her to find that she has been subjected to so much pressure, no wonder she will be more sentimental than other students. In all fairness, her grades have been the top class, and has been among the best, but as a doctor’s parents gave her too much pressure to