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在国家教育部制订的《青春期教育大纲》中,在行为要求方面,有一条就是“要学会与异性同学自然地交谈,这也是青春期教育的一个重要目标。但是,在现实生活和学习中,中学生很少有机会进行这万面的训练和实践;无论是中学生自身或是家长、教师,也未必都能够认识到学会与异性自然交谈的必要性。言语是人际交往的主要形式,男女同学伙伴要学会轻松自然地交谈;但是初涉人生的中学生,常常不知如何与异性同学伙伴进行交谈。据笔者观察和研究,中学生中异性之间的交谈常见的主要问题有: ①紧张、尴尬,不知第一句话说什么好;
In the “Outline of Adolescent Education” formulated by the Ministry of National Education, one of the behavioral requirements is that "we must learn to talk naturally with the opposite sex students, which is also an important goal of adolescent education. However, in real life and in study, middle school students Seldom have the opportunity to carry out the training and practice of these aspects; neither middle school students themselves nor their parents or teachers can understand the necessity of having a natural conversation with the opposite sex.Language is the main form of interpersonal communication, Learn to talk easily and naturally; However, the students involved in primary school students often do not know how to talk with the opposite sex partners.According to the author observation and research, the main problems of middle school students in the conversation between the opposite sex common: ① nervous, awkward, I do not know the first What is good