培养孩子的独立性格是孩子成长的必要条件,也为其人生打下最好的底色。记得有心理学家曾经这样指出:当儿童独立活动的要求得到某种满足或受到成人支持时,儿童就表现出得意、高兴,出现“自尊”、“自豪”等最初级的自我肯定的情感和态度,反之就出现否定的情感和态度。 Cultivating a child’s independent character is a necessary condition for the child to grow and also to create the best background for his life. Remember that psychologists once pointed out that when the demands of children’s independent activities are somewhat fulfilled or supported by adults, children show their satisfaction, joy, and self-esteem such as self-esteem, pride, etc. Positive feelings and attitudes, on the contrary there is a negative emotion and attitude.