心理咨询工作中,每每遇到那些精神心灵备受折磨的来访者,会发现大多是背后的原生家庭教育模式和家庭环境存在问题。泡菜效应恰当说明了这一点:蔬菜在清水里泡是一个样,在泡菜缸里泡是另一个样,不一样的环境会造成一不样的结果。通常,对于年轻的父母,哪怕他们不是来咨询亲子关系或儿童教育的,我也会在咨询中捎带着谈谈育儿问题。因为,有人格完善、 In psychological counseling, whenever encountering those who are deeply tortured by their mental and spiritual feelings, they find that most of them are experiencing problems with the family education mode and family environment behind them. The effect of kimchi is a good illustration of this: vegetables are soaked in clear water and soaked in kimchi is another, different environment can cause a different kind of result. Usually, young parents, even if they are not to consult the parent-child relationship or children’s education, I also incidentally in counseling to talk about parenting. Because, with perfect personality,