女性应该维护自身的利益,至少不该站在男性立场上敲打其他女性。但这种现象又随处可见,甚至表现得更加令人咋舌。我有一个认识多年的哥们儿,留学回来做公司,颇有积蓄。几年前突发疾病,去世了。留下老婆、孩子和两套房产。一次聚会上,有个女性朋友提到他,她问的问题是:“某某的老婆,后来又再嫁了吗?”没有。这几年,哥们儿的妻子一直带着孩子生活,并未再嫁人。得到答案后,这位女性朋友长出一口气,说:“那太好了。” Women should defend their own interests, at least not should stand on the men’s position beat other women. But this phenomenon can be seen everywhere, even more staggering performance. I have a buddy who has known me for many years and returned overseas to work as a company. I have a lot of savings. A few years ago sudden illness, passed away. Leave his wife, children and two sets of real estate. At a party, a female friend mentioned him. The question she asked was: “Is a certain wife remarried?” In recent years, buddy’s wife has been living with children, not married again. After getting the answer, the female friend took a deep breath and said: “That’s great.”