我们的孩子七岁多了,是个男孩,平时我们比较注意培养他的勇敢精神和独立性。如让他自己出去玩,什么事自己去尝试等,胆子也不算小。但就是害怕自己在房间独处。晚上,上床后,必须父母陪着睡,否则就会感到害怕。白天也是这样,放学后,若让他一个人在家,他绝对不干,只有跟我到单位去。后来因我们单位搞一项特殊工作,不让把孩子带进办公室,我和爱人协商后,决定有意识培养他一个人独处的能力。 我们也曾经问过孩子,你到底怕什么。他也说不清楚,有时说:“怕怪物进来”,有时说:“怕坏蛋进来”。我们曾想,以后不让孩子再接 Our child is over seven years old and is a boy. Usually, we pay more attention to cultivating his courage and independence. Such as let him go out to play, what to try, etc., courage is not too small. But it is afraid to be alone in the room. At night, after going to bed, you must sleep with their parents, or they will feel scared. The same is true during the day, after school, if let him alone at home, he absolutely quit, only to go with me to the unit. Later, because of our unit engaged in a special job, not to bring their children into the office, my wife and I decided to consciously cultivate his ability to be alone. We have also asked the children, what are you afraid of. He also said not clear, sometimes said: “afraid of monsters come in,” sometimes said: “afraid of bad guys come in.” We thought that we should not allow children to pick up later