在日常的家庭教育中,不要看到孩子的问题就直接否定打击,而要妥善地考虑其原有观念,巧妙调整角度和力度,调动孩子自己的力量去解决问题,这才是最佳方案。前一段时间,我接手了一个有趣的咨询个案。这是一个非常喜欢名牌的初中男生小A,平时只穿耐克和阿迪达斯。父母很担心孩子的拜金主义倾向太极端。他们焦虑地告诉我,家里条件比较好,从小给孩子买的衣服和玩具都是品牌比较有名的,结果,孩子对于服饰品牌变得越来越挑剔,而且这种意识泛化 In everyday family education, we should directly negate the blow without seeing the children’s problems. However, we must properly consider their original concepts, adjust their perspectives and efforts, and mobilize the children’s own power to solve the problems. This is the best solution. Some time ago, I took over an interesting consultation case. This is a very like brand name junior high school boy A, usually only wear Nike and Adidas. Parents are worried about children’s extreme tendency to worship money. They anxiously told me that the conditions at home are better. The clothes and toys bought by children from their childhood are more famous brands. As a result, children become more and more picky about clothing brands, and this generalization of consciousness