我们跟岳父母住在一起,每次跟妻子吵架的时候,她都生怕她父母不知道,有时候甚至故意拉父母来给自己造势,导致事态发展得越来越严重。我很不喜欢妻子这样,但又不知道该怎么劝她?你妻子的做法说明她心理还比较幼稚,还像孩子打架时,要去找大人说理。如果岳父母欠警觉,偏向她说话,她便愈发得意,而你愈发心怀不满。如此恶性循环下去,夫妻的沟通与关系肯定越来越不好。你要遏制这种情况的继续,自己要首先学会用非吵架的方式表达情绪和观点,心平气和地告诉妻子你的心情并劝 We live with our parents, and each time she quarrels with her, she fears that her parents do not know, sometimes even deliberately pulling their parents to create a situation that will lead to more and more serious developments. I really do not like his wife, but do not know how to persuade her? Your wife’s approach shows that she is still relatively naive childish, but also like children fighting, to find adults reasoning. If the father-in-law owes the alarm and speaks to her, she becomes more and more proud, and you become more displeased. Such a vicious cycle continues, the relationship between husband and wife certainly more and more bad. You want to curb the continuation of this situation, we must first learn to use non-quarrel way to express emotions and opinions, calmly tell your wife your feelings and advise