当婚姻遭遇危机,考验的不只是感情,还有你处理危机的方式和智慧。他失业了不当的方式:如果你对他只有指责和埋怨,夹枪带棒地强调他的无能,这种举动会让他本来因失业而受伤的心变得更加难过,让你们之间的感情更加疏远。恰当的方式:你应该加倍关心他,并用温柔平静的语气分析你们目前的处境。无论是准备简历还是面试,你都要帮他分担一部分责任,让他觉得不是只有他在担心工作的事。 When marriages encounter crises, the test is not just feelings, but also the way and wisdom you deal with the crisis. He was unemployed in an improper way: If you accuse him of blame and complain about him, with a heavy emphasis on his incompetence, this kind of move would make his heart, which was originally hurt by the joblessness, harder and let the feelings between you More distant. The Right Way: You should double your care and analyze your current situation with a gentle, calm tone. Whether you are preparing resumes or interviews, you have to share some of the responsibilities with him and make him feel that he is not the only one who is worried about his job.