常听人这么说,21世纪是个张扬人性、强调个性的时代,人际交往应该不拘一格,许多陈旧的为人处世的法则已无法规范人们的行为了。笔者以为,张扬人性,强调个性充分体现了一种尊重自由和尊严的时代精神,应该说是社会的进步。不过,世间所有的事物都不是绝对的,倡导自由,尊重个性并非不要“方圆”,只要人类社会延续一天,就必然有与之相应的人类道德规范及行为准则的存在。 It is often said that in the 21st century, an era of publicizing human nature and emphasizing individuality, interpersonal relationships should be eclectic. Many outdated rules of man’s behavior have failed to regulate people’s behavior. The author thinks that publicizing human nature and emphasizing individuality fully embodies the spirit of the times that respects freedom and dignity, which should be said to be social progress. However, everything in the world is not absolute. Advocating freedom and respecting one’s personality are not meant to be “radius.” As long as human society lasts for one day, there must be corresponding human moral norms and codes of conduct.