注重索取的人,认为人生价值的高低取决于自身获得了社会认可的多少,并且认为这种认可能够通过索取而获得,因而其行为表现出过多的索取特点。但是,无论他索取到的成果如何丰富,都避免不了最终的失落感受,因为在索取的灵魂深处,隐伏的是一个精神黑洞,这是精神贫困的根源,这种贫困断不了会时常出来折磨索取者的灵魂,使之陷入慌恐不安的包围之中。 Pay attention to those who claim that the level of the value of life depends on how much their own social recognition, and that such recognition can be obtained through the request, and therefore its behavior showed too much of the features of the request. However, no matter how rich his achievements are, he can not avoid the ultimate loss because the hidden soul in the solicited soul is the root cause of spiritual poverty, and this kind of poverty can not always be tormented The soul of the taker, plunges into panic-stricken encirclement.