痛苦,需要学习吗?是的。快乐像鲜花,任你怎么精心呵护,不经意间就凋零了;痛苦却如野草,随你怎么刈割、铲除,终会顽强地生长。你得学习迎接痛苦、医治痛苦、化解痛苦,让痛苦"钙化、成为你坚强生命的一部分。不过,这将是困难和缓慢的过程,你得忍住泪水。 Painful, need to learn? Happy like flowers, how caressed you carelessly, dying inadvertently; pain, but as the weeds, as you how cutting, eradication, will eventually grow tenaciously. You have to learn to meet the pain, to cure the pain, to dissolve the pain, to make the pain calcified as part of your strong life, but it will be a difficult and slow process and you have to hold back the tears.