编辑同志: 我的独子刚两岁多,健康和智力都好,而且不任性,懂礼貌。可是送到幼儿园以后,他却成了一个“弱者”。别的孩子喊叫、打逗,他会吓得哭起来,有的孩子欺生、打他,他惊呆了,连逃开都不知道。平时在家里,我们从来没骂过他,我和他妈妈也是不吵架的,所以他根本不知道有吵架这回事。我觉得,家庭里应该有个文明礼貌的气氛,但没有想到这对孩子也会产生另一方面的影响。究竟应该怎么办呢? 河北省邢台地区交通局苗圃朱奎 Editor’s Comrade: My only child just over two years old, health and intelligence are good, but not self-willed, polite. However, after being sent to kindergarten, he became a “weak person.” Other children shout, play tease, he will scared to cry, some children bully, hit him, he was shocked, and even escape did not know. At home, we never scolded him, and I did not quarrel with his mother, so he did not even know that there was a fight. I think there should be a civilized and polite atmosphere in the family, but I did not realize that this would have another impact on children. What should be how to do it? Xingtai District of Hebei Province Department of Transportation nursery Zhu Kui