丧偶之痛是人类最深切的哀痛，丧失老伴尤其如此。老伴在世时，尽管患病１１年，有时卧床不起，但总可以说说道道；那时候也是“出门一把锁，进门一盏灯”，但是没有孤独感。老伴去世以后，开始孩子们和我在一起，吃饭时热闹一阵，饭后还是凄凉孤独。每天只能从这个房间走到那 The death of a widow is the deepest sorrow of mankind, especially his loss of his wife. His wife was alive, although ill for 11 years, and sometimes bedridden, but always can say something; at that time also “go out a lock, enter a lamp,” but there is no sense of loneliness. After his wife died, start the children with me, when eating a lively, after dinner or desolate loneliness. Only get to this room from this room every day