很多人在步入婚姻殿堂前,会产生不同程度的紧张、焦虑和恐惧情绪,害怕婚姻能否持久,害怕生不了孩子,害怕丈夫会不会很快有外遇,因而耽误了结婚的最好时机,最终成为了“剩男剩女”。“宁缺毋滥”求完美33岁的小华(化名)是北京一家跨国企业的白领,研究生毕业后没几年,她就已跻身公司的中层。但事业有成的她却一直没找到自己的“另一半”。这些年,追求她的人从没断过,但却始终没有碰上合适的。在小华看来,不是学历不够,就是长得不帅;不是不够体贴,就是缺少男人气概。一来二去就拖了下来,成了一个实力派“剩女”。小华可以说是一个典型,她有着绝大多数剩男剩女都有的共同问题:过度追求完美。他们的理念是:宁缺毋滥。这部分人大都有较好的学历、工作、家庭、外貌等条件,可以说是相对“完美一族”。因此,他们对“梦中情人”的要求也更高。 Many people have varying degrees of tension, anxiety and fear before they enter the marriage hall. They fear the persistence of marriage, their fear of giving birth to their children, the fear of their husbands having an affair soon, and the best time to get married. , Eventually became “left male left woman ”. “Ningquewulao ” for perfection 33-year-old Xiaohua (a pseudonym) is a white-collar workers in a multinational enterprise in Beijing, graduate a few years after graduation, she has been among the company’s middle. However, successful career she has not found his “the other half ”. In recent years, the pursuit of her has never been broken, but never hit the right. In Xiaohua’s opinion, not enough education is not handsome; not not considerate, is the lack of masculinity. One to two to drag down, became a strength to send “left woman ”. Xiaohua can be said to be a typical, she has the vast majority of left-over men and women have the common problem: excessive pursuit of perfection. Their idea is: Ningquewulan. This part of the National People’s Congress has better academic qualifications, work, family, appearance and other conditions, can be said to be relatively “perfect family.” Therefore, they are also more demanding of “dream lovers.”