问过不少老夫妻,感情的状况如何?回答几乎千篇一律,大意无非就一个,都老夫老妻了,还有啥,平平淡淡呗!可在我看来,恰恰相反,越要老来伴,就越得不平淡。这不平淡,首先是物质上的。物质生活上的不平淡,就是不能一味甘于现状,要为了让对方过上更好的生活,而在自己力所能及的 Asked a lot of old couples, the feelings of the situation? Answer almost monotonous, the effect is nothing more than an old husband and wife are, and what, mediocre chanting! In my opinion, on the contrary, the more to the old companions, The more uneven. This is not flat, the first is material. Materialism is not flat, that is, can not be blindly willing to the status quo, in order to allow each other to lead a better life, but in their power