孩子不爱动脑筋,主要表现在两个方面:一是日常生活,二是学习活动。二者均与家庭教育有着密切关系。 父母一切都替孩子包办,“衣来伸手,饭来张口”,孩子形成事事依赖大人的习惯,成为吃饭穿衣的“机器”,思维就会渐渐懒惰起来,遇事不爱动脑筋。有些问题在成人看来很简单,而对孩子来说,则需要开动脑筋,认真思索。这类孩子一向不太动脑筋,一见问题自然就有畏难情绪,懒于思索,就简单地回答“不知道”了事。 Children do not love their brains, mainly in two aspects: First, daily life, and second, learning activities. Both are closely related to family education. Everything for the parents arranged for their children, “clothing to reach out, rice to open mouth,” children rely on the formation of all the habits of adults, become eating and drinking “machine”, the thinking will gradually laziness, failing to use their brains. Some problems appear to be very simple for adults, and for children, you need to think hard and think hard. Such children have always been less brainy, a problem naturally see the fear of emotions, lazy thinking, simply answer the “do not know” thing.