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人们聚居的现实,决定了人与人之间形成了相互照应、互相帮助的特点。上世纪80年代以前,农民经济上不宽裕,一户盖房,乡亲们都去帮忙。如打坯、烧砖、盖房,只请有技术的师傅吃顿面食饭,其他人连饭都不用管。当有年轻人在帮忙过程中只吸烟不干活时,会遭到长辈人的训斥:你家盖房时大家学你不干活！年轻人马上就改了恶习。婚丧嫁娶,人们也纷纷去帮忙,形成了你帮我,我帮你的社会风气。 然而,有的人在别人家盖房时,他装看不见;人家有了丧事,他以胆子小为理由不去帮忙。他认为自家不需要乡亲们帮忙,事实并非如此。某村一张姓人家,几代人从不帮
The reality that people live in has determined that people have taken shape and help each other. Before the 1980s, peasants were not economically prosperous. One house was built and villagers went to help. Such as playing the blanks, burning bricks, building, please only have a master of technology to eat pasta rice, others do not even control the rice. When young people in the process of helping only smoking does not work, they will be reprimanded elders: when you build your home you learn to work! Young people change bad habits right away. Weddings and funerals, people also have to help, formed you help me, I help you social ethos. However, some people can not see them when they build their own homes. When others have a funeral, they do not help because they are brave enough. He does not think he needs folks to help himself. That is not the case. A village name surnamed family, generations of people never help