据调查,初恋的成功率不到20％,由此可见,失恋的概率是相当高的。失恋是十分痛苦的,心理上创伤是深沉的。爱情的美好希望与憧憬一旦破灭,这种打击往往是难以承受的,爱得越深,投入得越多,精神上的压力就越大,常会有人痛不欲生,萌生厌世、弃世的念头,或出现不同形式的心理变态,至少也会对工作、学习、生活产生程度不同的影响。 According to the survey, the success rate of first love less than 20%, we can see that the probability of lovelorn is quite high. Lovelorn is very painful, psychological trauma is deep. Once the beautiful hopes and longings of love are shattered, such blows are often unbearable. The more they love, the more they devote themselves into their work. The more mental stress they have, the more people will not want to give birth, the more they will die, the more they will die or die. Different forms of psychological perversion, at least, will have different effects on work, study and life.