作为主持了近8年“隔代育儿”栏目的编辑,我看到了太多年轻父母无谓的烦恼,也被太多老人无私的付出感动,同时更是汲取了无数父母就这个话题奉献的无尽智慧。在此,我把它们浓缩在10句话中,希望可以为你开释烦恼,化解矛盾,让隔代育儿从此变成一个温馨、温暖、美好的代名词。没有任何一条法律规定,老人有养育第三代的责任和义务。所以,如果他们在帮你,应该一直心存感激。如果老人不帮,更应该感激,因为他们肯为你的小家庭留出足够的空间和自由,还能让你在养育上完全自 As an editor who presided over the past eight years of “Parenting Children”, I saw too many unwanted worries of young parents and too many unselfish motives of elderly people. At the same time, I also drew countless parents’ dedication on this topic Endless wisdom. Here, I condensed them in 10 sentences, hoping to relieve your troubles and resolve contradictions, so that the inter-generational childcare will become a warm, warm and beautiful pronoun. Without any legal provisions, the elderly have the responsibility and obligation to raise the third generation. So, if they are helping you, you should always be grateful. If the elderly do not help, it should be more grateful, because they are willing to leave enough room for your small family and freedom, but also allows you completely self-rearing self