中国的父母也许是世界上最“望子成龙”的了。在我们祖先的观念里,“不孝有三,无后为大”,可见后代在为人父母者心中的地位。假如出了个不肖子孙,那个罪可是难受,不但落个晚景凄凉,无人赡养,死后还对不起历代祖宗。而相反,如果养出了一个厉害的孩子,不但光耀门楣,而且将荣及祖 China’s parents may be the most “Succeed” in the world. In the concept of our ancestors, “there are no filial piety and no great cause”, we can see the status of future generations in the hearts of parents. If out of unscrupulous offspring, that crime is uncomfortable, not only a desolate nightfall, no one support, but also sorry after the death of the ancestors. On the contrary, if raised a powerful child, not only shine lintel, but also Rong and ancestors