汉字中,“给与”的“给”字里,“人”在上方;而在“取”字当中,“人”却处于下方。虽然这仅是字形,但令人深思的是,在给与他人时,人确实处于比较高的位置,具有高尚的动机,宽容的心态;而在向他人索取的时候,很难拥有这样的心态,容易低声下气、低人一等,处于求人的状态。所以,给与使人的位置提升,索取 In Chinese characters, “person ” is above in the “given ”, and “person” is below. Although this is only a glyph, it is thought-provoking that when given to others, people are indeed at a relatively high position, with noble motives and tolerant mentality, and it is very difficult to have such a mentality when they are obtained from others , Easy to whisper, inferior, in a state of seeking people. Therefore, to make people’s position to enhance, obtain