还没有发生实质性的出轨行为,你就已经在给自己找借口了?警惕:这可能是精神出轨!难以界定的“精神出轨”?和同事出去喝了一杯后,你心里想着,如果被伴侣质问,就这样说:“我们只是开完会以后累了,才一起去喝了一杯”“他就是跟我倾诉了些烦恼,因为他找不到别人听他说嘛!”但你自己也不知道干嘛要跟伴侣解释,自己根本没做什么错事,但为什么总是良心不安呢? Have not taken place before the actual derailment behavior, you already have to give yourself an excuse? Wrong: This may be mental derailed! Difficult to define the spirit of derailed? And colleagues went out and drank a cup, you think, If asked by my mate, I would say: “We were tired after we finished the meeting and had a drink together.” “He told me some troubles because he could not find anyone else to listen to him! ”But you do not know why to explain to your partner, he did not do anything wrong, but why always conscience it?