女儿从小班到中班一直是班里年龄最小的一个,同伴们都叫她小妹妹,什么事都让着她。在家里由于女儿体质弱,我们对她更是百般呵护。慢慢地,任性、胆小、依赖等各种坏毛病在女儿身上体现出来。一盘鸡肉端上桌,她就抢着鸡腿啃,她总认为这是理所应当的,问她为什么,她就说“因为我最小”。到了大班,她还不肯一个人独睡,更不敢—个人在家独处。随着女儿的长大,她身上的问题越来越多。我开始意识到了问题的严重性。于是我用讲道理等方式来帮助女儿改掉坏习惯,但始终见效不大。 Daughter from small class to middle class has been the youngest of a class, companions call her little sister, what makes her. Because of her daughter’s weak constitution at home, we treat her even more. Slowly, wayward, timid, dependent and other bad habits reflected in the daughter. A plate of chicken on the table, she grabbed the chicken chew, she always thought it was well-deserved, and asked her why she said “because I am the youngest.” To the class, she still refused to sleep alone, but dare not - individuals at home alone. As her daughter grows, she’s getting more and more problems. I began to realize the seriousness of the problem. So I use precepts and other ways to help her daughter get rid of bad habits, but always effective.