在工作中，教师不自觉地被学生的某些特点行为牵着走，在某种程度上受到其不良影响和控制，这在心理学中被称为儿童的消极控制。事实证明，当教师的教育行为受到儿童行为的较大影响和控制时，便很难发挥其应有的主导作用，难以较好地履行自己的教育职责。学生小B是我曾教过的全 At work, teachers are unconsciously led by certain characteristics and behavior of students, and to some extent, they are adversely affected and controlled. This is called the negative control of children in psychology. Facts have proved that when teachers’ educational behaviors are greatly influenced and controlled by children’s behaviors, it is difficult for them to play their due leading role and to fulfill their educational responsibilities well. Student B is all I have ever taught