著名的社会心理学家霍曼斯指出,人际交往在本质上是一个社会交换过程。长期以来,人们最忌讳将人际交往和交换联系起来,认为一谈交换,就很庸俗,或者亵渎了人与人之间真挚的感情。其实,这种想法大可不必有,我们在交往中总是在交换着某些东西,或者是物质,或者是情感,或者 The famous social psychologist Homance pointed out that interpersonal communication is essentially a social exchange process. For a long time, people have the most taboo to associate interpersonal exchanges with exchange. They think it very vulgar or blasphemous to exchange sincere feelings between people. In fact, this idea may not necessarily have, we are always in the exchange of certain things, or material, or emotional, or