朋友们一起聚会,有个妈妈谈起她的孩子时,提到这样一件事。她有一个女儿,好胜心极强,不仅自己事事要争先,而且看到别人比她更能干、更聪明,心理上就明显地承受不了。有一次,在餐桌上另一个差不多大的小孩子洋洋表演了唱歌,大家都鼓掌叫好,她就一个人一声不吭地下了座位跑到外面去了。妈妈追出去问她为什么时,她说 When friends talked together and a mom talked about her children, she mentioned such a thing. She has a daughter, very ambitious, not only to fight for their own things, but also to see others are more capable than her, smart, psychologically obviously can not afford. Once, on the table, another about the same age children singing loudly, everyone applauded, she silently left the seat and went outside. When she went out to ask her why, she said