大教育家苏霍姆林斯基说:“任何一种教育现象,孩子在其中越少感觉到教育者的意图,他的教育效果越大。”所以,我们的很多父母在对待孩子教育上,应去掉那些让人不快的“要求、命令、必须”等词汇,而通过“启发、暗示、商量”等形式来进行。这种形式的教育,孩子会更乐于接受,更喜 The great educator Sukhomlinski said: “Any kind of educational phenomenon in which children feel less about the intention of educators, the greater their educational effectiveness.” Therefore, many of our parents in the treatment of children’s education, The unpleasant phrases such as “request, order, necessity” should be removed from the form of “inspiration, suggestion, consultation” and so on. This form of education, children will be more willing to accept, more like