我的女儿13岁,我一直以为她仍然是白纸一张,无意中发现她的书包里竟然有男孩子写来的情书,这太让我震惊了,我不知道该如何去面对?——山西陆女士今天,孩子们的心理成长早不在父母的掌控之中了。你的惊讶只能说明你还不算是一个聪明的母亲,还不知道孩子在父母面前的表现只是假象。好像在按照父母期待去做事,在外却是听自己的。所以,在 My daughter was 13 years old and I always thought she was still a piece of white paper and inadvertently found a love letter written by a boy in her bag. It was too shocking for me. I do not know how to deal with it. - Miss Lu, Shanxi Today, children’s psychological growth has long been beyond the control of their parents. Your astonishment only shows you are not yet a smart mother, and you do not know that children’s performance in front of their parents is just an illusion. Looks like in accordance with the parents to go to work, but outside is to listen to yourself. So, at