常有人诉苦：“为什么没有人理解我呢？”言者一脸的无奈与痛苦。的确，人是需要理解的。被人理解会使人信心倍增，因为你觉得自己并不孤独，至少还有人理解、支持你。每个人都害怕孤独，因而也渴望被人理解。“理解万岁”的口号就这样传开了。而一旦失去了理解，便难免在孤独? There are often people complaining: “Why does no one understand me?” The helplessness and pain of the face of the speaker. Indeed, people need to understand. Being understood will make people more confident because you feel that you are not alone. At least someone understands and supports you. Everyone is afraid of loneliness and is therefore eager to be understood. The slogan “understand Long Live” was spread like this. And once you lose your understanding, it will inevitably be lonely?