“我们总以为,若一个人身体有疾,便该成为史铁生,成为保尔柯察金,却不会去尊重一个身体有疾的父亲,对自己孩子最真挚的爱。”我曾看过《麦田里的守望者》里的一句话:一个不成熟男人的标志是他愿意为了事业英勇地牺牲,一个成熟男人的标志是他愿意为了事业卑贱地活着。度过挣扎彷徨的年少无知以后,我才终于明白,原来一个人的生命,总是要存负重之中,才能彰显其 “We always thought that if a person has a bad health, he should become Shi Tiesheng and become a Paul Kachajin, but he will not respect a physically ill father and have the most sincere love for his children.” I once looked The phrase in Catcher in the Rye: The sign of an immature man is his willingness to sacrifice heroically for a career, and the mark of a mature man is his willingness to live humble for business. After I was struggling young and ignorant, I realized finally that one’s life was always in the middle of one’s weight