父亲退休后,他每天无所事事、唉声叹气,他觉得自己与社会脱了节,成了一个无用的人。看他苦恼不堪,我让他学打麻将,他说浪费时间、玩物丧志,没兴趣;我让他练书法,他说一个人坐在那里练,太孤独了。我说:“您的生活圈子太小了,现在流行各种各样的圈子,你不如也找个自己喜欢的圈子加入进去,不但能交到很多朋友,而且还能找到快乐。”看父亲有点疑惑,我解释说,现在有很多圈子,爱读书的人成立了读书圈子,爱跳舞的人成立了跳舞圈子,爱喝茶的人成立了品茶圈子,爱 After his father retired, he did nothing every day, moan and sigh, he felt himself off society, has become a useless person. Look at him distressed, I let him learn to play mahjong, he said wasting time, playwright, no interest; I let him practicing calligraphy, he said a person sitting there practicing, too lonely. I said: “Your life is too small circle, now a variety of popular circles, you might as well find their own circle of love to join, not only to make a lot of friends, but also to find happiness.” My father a little puzzled, I explained that there are many circles, people who love reading set up a reading circle, people who love dancing set up a dance circle, tea lovers set up tea circle, love