人在旅途,说得上“一路绿灯、一帆风顺”的人极少,对绝大多数人来说,挫折、磨难、逆境,多于坦途、顺利、成功。如果不善待挫折和失败,终日烦恼、怨愤、长吁短叹,悲观消沉,久而久之,必然劳其心志、伤其体魄,贻误大事。挫折是现实生活中的正常现象,人人都不可完全避免。因此,为了保持自身人格的完整和心理的平衡,就必须要有应付各种困难与遭受挫折的思想准备。众所周知,挫折作为一种情绪状态和一种个人体验,人与人的耐受性是大不相同的。有的人面临一个又一个严重的挫折,能够坚韧不拔、百折不挠;有的人稍遇挫折便意志消沉、一蹶不振,甚至痛不欲生。有的人在生活中受多大的挫折都能忍耐,但不能忍受事业上的失败;有的人可以忍受工作上的严 People on the road, put it mildly, “smooth green” very few people, for the vast majority of people, setbacks, suffering, adversity, more than smooth, successful and successful. If you do not treat your setbacks and failures, you will have to worry, resentment, sobs, pessimism and gloom over the course of time. Frustration is a normal phenomenon in real life, and everyone can not completely avoid it. Therefore, in order to maintain the integrity and psychological balance of one’s own personality, we must have the ideological preparation for dealing with all kinds of difficulties and setbacks. As we all know, frustration as a state of emotion and a personal experience, people’s tolerance is very different. Some people face serious setbacks after another, and they can persevere and persevere. Some people will experience depression, slump and even painful feelings if they encounter a setback. Some people are endured in life by how many setbacks, but can not stand the cause of failure; some people can tolerate the work of strict