每到新学期开始前，一些望子成龙的父母便通过一些关系找到学校领导或班主任老师，希望为孩子讨一顶官帽戴一戴。面对父母的要求，老师们常常伤透脑筋，左右权衡不定。在与父母们的交谈中，我们发现，大多数父母都希望孩子担任小干部。他们认为当干部可以帮助孩子树立自信心， Before the start of each new semester, some hopeful parents find a school leader or head teacher through some relationship, hoping to seek an official hat for the child. Faced with the requirements of parents, teachers often headache, left and right trade-off. In conversations with parents, we found that most parents want their children to be small cadres. They think that when cadres can help children build self-confidence,