那时奶奶还健在。奶奶是上个世纪出生的人,非常顽固亦非常守旧。比如她认为男人绝对不能做家务活,在家里绝对一手遮天,对媳妇绝对昂首挺胸等。这下,可难为了母亲。她在中学里当班主任,免不了跟学生生气,回家也不舒服,活计又多,大大小小一家人挤在一间房子里,几乎没有透气的地方。当时的窘境可想而知。 Grandma was still alive then. Grandma was born in the last century, very stubborn and very conservative. For example, she believes that men must not do housework, absolutely overwhelming at home, absolute hold of the bride and so on. This time, hard for the mother. She was in charge of duty in high school, inevitably angry with the students, home is not comfortable, more active, large and small family crowded in a house, almost no breathable place. The dilemma can be imagined at that time.