从我当小学生的时候,班级里便是女孩当“家”。女孩学习好,女孩比男孩守纪律,于是,女孩便得到了教师的偏爱。然而,不知为什么,女孩仿佛越读越笨,越大越没出息,到了中学,尤其是到了高中,人们的评价变了,许多不起眼的男孩仿佛突然开窍儿,成为学习上的佼佼者。通常人们是这样解释这种现象的:第一,男孩比女孩懂事晚,成熟晚,智力方面的潜力却比女孩大。第二,小学阶段学习主要靠记忆,中学以后的学习则靠逻辑思维和创造性,这些是女生天然不具备的。第三,女生专于语言和形象思维,男生专于逻辑思维。中学以后的数理化课程自然是男生领先。这些说法,看来似乎都很有道理,除此以外,是不是还有一些解释或许更有价值。这里也想说一说。首先,社会上“好女孩”和“好学生”的标准是不一 From the time I was a schoolboy, the class was a girl when she was “home.” Girls study well, girls are more disciplined than boys, so girls get teachers’ preference. However, I do not know why, as if reading more and more stupid girls, the greater the less interest, to high school, especially to high school, people’s evaluation has changed, many humble boys seem to suddenly Kaiqiao, a leader in learning. Usually people interpret this phenomenon: First, boys are sensible late than girls, mature late, and their potential for intelligence is greater than that of girls. Second, primary school mainly relies on memory, and secondary school learning relies on logical thinking and creativity, which girls do not have naturally. Third, the girls specialized in language and image thinking, boys specializing in logical thinking. After the high school mathematics and chemistry courses naturally lead the boys. All of these claims seem plausible, but other explanations may be more valuable. Here also want to say something. First of all, the standards of “good girl” and “good student” in society are different