“好儿不要爷田地,好女不要嫁时衣”。年轻力壮的少年从迟暮老年人的饭钵里攫取一杯羹时,那已经不是简单意义的老养少和“啃老”了,是掠夺,是残忍,是做晚辈的耻辱甚至罪过。父母家不是免费饭店,父母家不是免费托儿所,父母更不是保姆。尊老爱幼、自强自立是中华民族的传统美德。 “Do not be good grandfather, good women do not marry when the clothes.” When a young, juvenile boy takes a cup of soup from the old man’s old bowl, it is no longer a simple matter of raising old and eating less. It is a predation, a cruel, a disgrace to his younger generation or even a sin. Parents’ home is not a free hotel, parents are not free nurseries, parents are not nanny. Respect for the old and young, self-reliance and self-reliance are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.