“成龙”观念家长有权望子成龙,却无权逼子成龙。正如家长无权包办孩子的婚姻一样,家长也无权包办孩子的前程。很多的家长从孩子一上幼儿园就带着参加各种特长班。上学后,每日伴读,课余则送孩子去各种补习班忙忙碌碌,结果是孩子越来越不是那么回事。到了中学,家长终于泄气了,逼子成龙的计划宣告破产。其实家长若 The concept of “Jackie Chan” parents have the right to Succeed, but no right to force Jackie Chan. Just as parents have no right to organize a child’s marriage, parents also have no right to organize their children’s future. Many parents from kindergarten to take a variety of specialty classes. After school, daily with reading, after school is to send their children to a variety of tutoring classes busy, the result is that children are more and more not the case. To secondary school, parents finally deflated, forced Jackie Chan’s plan declared bankruptcy. In fact, if parents