人不是生活在真空里,而是生活在“别人”组成的社会中。你的一言一行,一举一动,别人都会有所“感受”。一位妈妈曾告诉孩子“:你的地板是别人的天花板。”在现实生活中,我们往往容易走极端,要么老是看别人的脸色,做什么事都以别人的感受和评价为准绳;要么以自我为中心,不理解别人,不考虑别人的感受。那么,我们究竟该如何 Instead of living in a vacuum, people live in a society of “others ”. Your words and deeds, every move, others will have “feelings ”. A mother once told her child: “Your floor is someone’s ceiling.” "In real life, we often tend to go extremes, either always looking at someone’s face and doing what we do with the feelings and comments of others ; Either self-centered, do not understand others, do not consider the feelings of others. So what are we?