平常的生活中我们不乏听到如下一些沉重的消息:某某家的孩子因受不了老师的批评而自杀,或者因为恋爱失败而自杀,或者因受不了一句言语的刺激而动刀子,或因某项要求未得到满足而离家出走甚至自杀等等。在听到这些消息的时候,人们往往把矛头指向老师,指责其 We usually hear the following heavy news in the ordinary life: the children of a certain family commit suicide because they can not stand the teacher’s criticism, or commit suicide because of the failure of love, or can not stand a verbal stimulation and move a knife or because of a Item requirements have not been met and run away from home and even commit suicide and so on. At the time of hearing these news, people often point their finger at the teacher, accusing it