他们在处理孩子教育问题上更多的是从自己孩子的特质出发,而不是去看别人怎么做。也就是说他们对自己很自信,也信任孩子,这样他们向孩子传递的积极向上的东西也就更容易被孩子接受,孩子受家长的影响也很自信,也学会了信任他人。这是一个良性的循环,它的起点就是家长自身生活态度的改变。 Instead of looking at what others are doing, they deal more with their children’s education based more on the characteristics of their children. That is to say, they are confident of themselves and trust their children so that the positive things they convey to their children are more easily accepted by their children. The children are also very confident in the influence of their parents and have learned to trust others. This is a virtuous cycle, and its starting point is the change in the parents’ own attitude to life.