我发现同事之间很爱攀比。A说去学钢琴了,很快B就在朋友圈晒画作。你颜值高,我比你富;你业绩好,我人际关系融洽。同事们在各个方面都与他人比较,比孩子的成绩、爱人的职业、住房面积等,好像不做攀比就不能体现自身的价值一样。怎么样才能躲开这种较劲的攀比?季伟关于攀比,有毒舌网友说这就像是一场吃屎比赛,只要掺和进去,免不了都带着臭味离场,谁也无法独善其身。心理学上,攀比指个体发现自身与参照个体发生偏差时,产生负面情绪的心理过程,属于略偏阴 I found my colleagues love Compassion. A said to learn the piano, and soon B in the circle of friends painting. You Yan Yan, I am better than you; your good performance, my interpersonal harmony. Colleagues in all aspects of comparison with others, than the child’s performance, lover’s occupation, housing area, etc., do not seem to be comparisons can not reflect their own value. How can we avoid this rival comparisons? Ji Wei on comparisons, poisonous tongue users say it’s like eating feces competition, as long as the blending into, inevitably have to leave with the smell, who can not be alone. Psychology, comparisons refers to the individual found himself and the reference individual deviations, the psychological process of negative emotions, a slight yin yin