我们总认为人际场上能说会道的人沾了许多便宜,不大想到善于倾听的人也有番特别的风光;都说“说”是推销自己的好手段,不大理会倾听也是推销自己的好途径,特别是对于不善词令的人来说。会说的,总有锋芒毕露时候,也常有言过其实之嫌,话说多了,称夸夸其谈、油嘴滑舌;说过了份,还导之言多必失、祸从口出。静心倾听,远没有这些弊病,倒有兼听则明的好处。注意听,给人的印象是谦 We always think that people who can talk in the field have a lot of cheap chewing gums and they do not think that people who are good at listening also have special scenery. They all say that saying is a good way to promote themselves. Listening to them is also a good way to promote themselves. Especially for people who do not speak well. Will say, there are always hard-edged, often over-talked too much, to say more, exaggerated, creaky tongue; said too much, but also guide the words will lose, delusional mouth. Meditate to listen, far from these drawbacks, down and listen to the benefits of that. Pay attention to listen, giving the impression is modest