“调戏”一词过去是贬义值,有流氓、亵渎的意思。现在,它却承载了更多的意味,甚至有着性感的效果。在一段爱情里,若缺少调戏,便会缺少味道与情趣,公事公办,相敬如宾,客气得不像话,情份便在这些不冷不热中慢慢消退不见。调戏是一种爱情保鲜剂,适当地拿对方开开玩笑,增加幽默气氛,自然能让两人之间的情谊更加深厚。朋友间的调戏意在向恋人升级;恋人间的调戏意在公示情人关系;同行、同学、同事间的调戏意在有趣、寻乐、找“色”。说到“色”字,以前似乎一直属于男人的专利,但今天变了、易主了。男人调戏女人的老路子太过迂腐,太没新意,太没个性;女人调戏男人才具风味、新潮刺激,而男人接受起调戏来是一种美美的感觉。 “Dumb] ” used to be a derogatory value, a rogue, profane meaning. Now, it carries more meaning and even has a sexy effect. In a period of love, if the lack of teasing, it will lack the taste and fun, official public, respectable, polite disgrace, the feelings in these lukewarm slowly subsided. Dalliance is a kind of love preservative, properly take each other to joke, increase the humorous atmosphere, nature can make the friendship between the two more profound. Inter-friends intend to upgrade to lovers; between lovers intent on publicity lover; peer, classmates, colleagues between the intent of fun, fun, find “color ”. Speaking of “color ” word, it seems that has always been a man’s patent, but today changed, easy to master. Man teasing a woman’s old way too pedantic, too new, too personal; woman teasing men with flavor, trendy stimulation, and men to accept the play is a United States and the United States feel.