对观察对象的描述硕硕(化名),5岁,女。硕硕的父母开了一家修车铺,生意比较忙,和孩子在一起的时间很少,爷爷奶奶成为硕硕主要的监护人与抚养人。从和家人的交流中可以发现,奶奶整天包办孩子的一切,在家庭中又比较强势,对硕硕的教育比较简单、粗暴,对孩子缺乏其作为一个独立个体的尊重。硕硕从小班开始一直在我带的班里,她是个很外向的孩子,在集体 The description of the observed object Shuo Shuo (a pseudonym), 5 years old, female. Shuo Shuo’s parents opened a car repair shop, business is busy, and children with little time, grandparents became the main guardian and supporters Shuo Shuo. It can be found from the exchange with family members that all the grandmas have arranged their children all day and are relatively strong in the family. They are relatively simple and rude to large-scale education and lack respect for their children as an independent individual. Shuo Shuo has been in my class since the beginning of the class, she is a very outgoing child, in the collective