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拖德向保拉求婚6个月后,两人就住在了一起。之后,他们一直都在忙着布置公寓,准备旅行,安排婚礼等事情。婚后保拉发观自己处在一个边缘,感到非常痛苦,一方面她想回到从前的日子,一方面她又想拥有一个家庭。 专家说,婚后出现这种情况是正常的,婚姻会带给人一些正面的东西,同时也会拿走某些东西。大部分人在婚后会感到沮丧或消沉。还有的人不能接受两种世界的差距,特别是新娘经常会有这种感觉,她们昨天还是新娘,结果一天后她们就成了妻子,有许多家务等着她做。出现这种情况是因为她的思想还停留在过去。 很多人都把婚姻生活浪漫化,对于现实的婚后生活没有做好充分的心理准备。在令人兴奋的大喜日子过后,现实生活的琐碎和枯燥的一面就完全呈现在她
Six months after Detroit marched to Paula, the two lived together. Since then, they have been busy arranging apartments, preparing for travel, arranging weddings and more. After marriage, Paola made her own impression on the verge of being very painful. On the one hand, she wanted to return to the old days and on the other hand she wanted to have a family. Experts say this is normal after marriage, marriage will bring people some positive things, but also take away certain things. Most people feel depressed or depressed after marriage. Still others can not accept the difference between the two worlds. Especially the bride often has this feeling. They were the bride yesterday. As a result, they became the wife one day later and had many housework waiting for her. This happens because her thoughts remain in the past. Many people romanticize marriage life, and do not have enough psychological preparation for the actual married life. After the exciting day, the trivial and boring aspects of real life are completely presented to her