《管子·幼管篇》有云:“著夫取予之分,则得地而不执。”意思是说,能够洞明“取”与“予”的分寸,有效掌控,才能取予适度。古人讲得明白,“既欲取之,必先予之”,讲的就是“取”与“予”的辩证法。善于“予”,才能“取”。“予”之不足,竭泽而渔,杀鸡取卵,所取也必然无多。所以, The tube and the young tube articles goes like this: “When a husband grants, he gains ground instead of holding a hand.” The meaning is that it is possible to find out what is right and what is right . The ancients made it clear that “since we want to take it, we must give it priority” and that we are talking about the dialectics of “taking” and “giving”. Good at “to” in order to “take.” “To” the lack of exhausted Ze Ze fishing, killing chicken take, but also certainly no more. and so,