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《家,为什么让孩子们烦》一文真切反映了孩子们的心声,也客观揭示了当前在家庭教育中普遍存在的一些问题,如①孩子在家里没有自由,父母教育孩子非打即骂;②父母的过高期望,常使孩子感到力不从心;③父母不尊重孩子的爱好、兴趣,将家长的意愿强加给孩子,不信任孩子,使代沟加深;④有些家长对孩子不负责任,放任自流,孩子感受不到父母的关爱,体验不到家庭的温馨。显然.这样的家教环境非常不利于孩子的成长和身心健康。心理学家诺尔蒂生动地描绘了教育环境与儿童行为的关系:如果儿童生活在批评的环境中,他就学会指责;如果儿童生活在敌意的环境中,他就学会打架;如
The article, “Why Do Families Let Children Get Bored,” truly reflects the voices of children and objectively reveals some common problems in family education, such as: ① children have no freedom at home and their parents educate their children to abuse or curse; ② Parents are too high expectations, often make children feel powerless; ③ parents do not respect children’s hobbies, interest, impose the wishes of parents on children, do not trust their children, so that the generation gap deepen; ④ some parents are irresponsible to their children, Children can not feel the love of parents, not to experience the warmth of the family. Obviously, such a tutoring environment is very detrimental to children’s growth and physical and mental health. Psychologist Nolti vividly portrays the relationship between the educational environment and child behavior: he learns to accuse children of living in a critical environment; learns to fight if the child lives in a hostile environment; and if