女儿成长的过程中,我们一直很注意培养她去关心周围的人。这样做,一方面是因为我们发现小小人儿平常太喜欢看书,不愿意和兴趣不同的小朋友一起玩,显得有些不合群。另外,关心别人意味着多付出少索取,如果不从孩子很小的时候有意识地去锻炼,很难让孩子知道什么叫“大家快乐自己才会更快乐”的意义。 In the process of her daughter’s growth, we have always paid great attention to nurturing her to care for the people around her. This is because, on the one hand, we find that small children usually enjoy reading books too much and are not willing to play with children with different interests. In addition, caring for others means paying more and paying less. If you do not exercise consciously when your child is young, it is hard to let your child know what it means to be “happy when everyone is happy.”