我儿子今年30多了还没对象,我特着急,但怕他烦,又不敢明着问。所以会时不时拐弯抹角地问他,比如“上次来的那个女孩不错,现在还有联系吗?”“我这些年送出去不少彩礼钱,你说啥时候能收回来呢?”我已经很委婉了,可没想到儿子更不高兴,还不理我了。这是为什么?我还能怎么办呢?——黄女士我很理解这位读者的焦虑和苦恼。作为妈妈,为儿子的终身大事考虑,又怕他反感,所以您才用拐弯抹角的方式去暗示,不料儿子不领情,这肯定让您既委屈又困惑,不知道怎么和 My son is not more than 30 this year, the object, I am particularly anxious, but afraid of him annoying, but also did not dare to ask. So from time to time it will ask him roundabout, such as “The last time that the girl is good, there is still contact? ” "I sent out a lot of money during these years, you say what time to recover it? I have been very tactful, but did not think my son is even more upset, still ignore me. Why is this? What can I do? - Ms. Wong I understand this reader’s anxiety and distress. As a mum, thinking about his son’s life-long event, he is afraid of being disgusted with him, so you can use hurdles to suggest that the son does not appreciate it, which will surely make you both wronged and confused, and do not know how and